The Ice Opinion: Men, Women, and Sex

"Men have to learn courtin and mating skills. You can help yourself by learning a few basics. If you can dance, that will help. Give a woman a reason to like you. Wash your ass. Do some situps. And once you get your physical act together, read some books. Learn something. Be interesting. Get some flavor about yourself. Most important, get in the game."

Ice-T n wife coco



"The average male deals with women on level one. 'How you living? Where do you work? What do you do? I have a job, too. I like what you do.' But the next level is the key: 'Don't you think everything happens for a reason? Don't you feel a vibe? Don't you think sometimes you feel like you're above the rest?' I'm an Aquarius and while others might think about earth, we think about the sky. I dream. I wanna be with someone who can feel on a spiritual level."

coco.. uh oh



"If you think of what L.A. is and you think what a rapper is, a rapper is a slick talker. Not only does he talk slick, he talks slick in rhyme. We get paid to talk slick. If I'm one of the biggest slick talkers in L.A., and L.A. is the fastest city in the United States, and the United States is the fastest country in the world, you're probably hanging out with one of the fastest, slickest-talking muthafuckas on earth. So the average girl is really in trouble. Be afraid.. I always tell girls I meet when they talk to me they got to be real careful because I'm really good at this shit."





"Confidence is the greatest aphrodisiac. Overconfidence is a turnoff. It must be handled like nitro. My girl wife is very extroverted. She's always been that way. If I had to beg her to dress sexy, I wouldn't get off. The most erotic thing to me is to hook up with a female who knows what she wants."





"A real live conflict exists with women who can't deal deal with blatant sexuality. My [ex] girlfriend and I went through all this drama when she wore her bathing suit on the cover of the Power album. I explained to her in advance what message the image of the album cover was supposed to get across. We were going to show the power of sex, the power of weapons, and the power of deception. I told her to be on the cover she'd need to wear something sexy and she came out with her bathing suit. She's proud of her body. She had been in a gym night and day, and this was a chance for her to show herself off.. Feminists came up to me and asked, 'Why did you make her do that? Why did you exploit her?' It wasn't exploitation. She knew what she was doing. She was down with it.. If a girl makes a living getting paid to do bikini contests, somebody will tell her she's allowing herself to be exploited. But she may point out that she's making $1,000 a night, and she likes attention. She just might dig it."











"Real relationships require compromise. Love is not a selfish game. At times, you will have to rub his neck. Maybe you are dead tired, but he would really like it, and you love him, so you rub his neck. There gonna be times when she's gonna want something, and you're gonna have to accomodate her. These usually aren't requests that money can buy. These are physical acts of unselfishness over selfishness. This is what real love is all about."





"Some things are better left unsaid."





- The Ice Opinion: Who Gives a Fuck?, St Martin's Press

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